If you want to live with power, impact, and unshakable focus, then this book is your training ground.
Average Is a Disease — And It's Contagious
We live in a world that rewards mediocrity. Get the job, collect the paycheck, survive the week, repeat. Play it safe. Keep your head down. Don’t make waves. Don’t want too much.
That’s the disease of average. And if you’re not careful, you’ll catch it.
It’s in the way people talk about their goals like they’re optional.
It’s in the way they scroll for hours and say they’re “too busy.”
It’s in the way they defend their excuses instead of building discipline.
Average isn’t just common—it’s defended. Protected. Celebrated, even.
But not here.
This is not a book for dabblers.
This is not a book for the comfortably numb.
This is for those who know there’s more inside them—and are ready to pay the price to unlock it.
Commitment Isn’t Sexy—But It’s Unstoppable
This Book Is a Mental Gym
You won’t just read this book—you’ll train with it.
This is not theory. It’s not philosophy. It’s a blueprint, a discipline, a code of conduct for anyone serious about reaching their full potential. Inside, you’ll find:
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The rituals that build unbreakable focus
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The mindset that elite performers use to thrive under pressure
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The uncomfortable truths about what’s really stopping you
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The process for rewiring your identity to match your mission
My name is Peter - I am SCARED as HE**! ~
I would like everyone to think that I am strong, confident, and overall know what I want and have my "chit" together. I would love to say I was captain of the football team, and married my high school sweetheart. But that would be a huge lie. I failed 4th grade and repeated it. I also didn't graduate high school.
My mom and dad separated when I was like three years old. My mom was sleeping around on him, so he got up and left. I don't blame him, well at least for not leaving my mom. However he could have checked on me more frequently and maybe I wouldn't have gone through what my mom's boyfriend did to me.
He came into my mom's life like a gentleman. I mean I was 5 and he bought me toys at first.
Slowly he got my mom into drugs and knocked her up. Then the fighting begin, he would beat her to get what he wanted and I tried to step up to him, but was pushed away.
Eventually he turned his attention to me for standing up to him, he had me do horrible things. This ordeal lasted for almost 2 years, when someone noticed the "signs" and reported us.
I was placed with my father, while my mom recuperated. I didn't find out who helped us until 3 weeks ago.
My dad was dying and on his deathbed, he apologized for leaving me with "mom", and that he called the county and they intervened.
I came along Mandie Safe Haven almost by accident, I was depressed, looking for answers...to be honest I was on the verge of ending it.
If it wasn't for reading some of the posts and what others commented on, I almost gave in. Curtis responded to my request and sent me his latest book at the time.
I still wasn't certain this was for me, I mean I was in a relationship with someone, who I thought knew me and wanted the same things I did. Well the fact is, I didn't know what I wanted. So I was in a relationship that was one-sided.
I had no clue what I wanted, until Curtis responded to me and asked me a few questions about my life.
To be honest, I was scared out of mind, I didn't want help. I wanted someone to agree with me, and say your right, the world would be better without you.
But Curtis wasn't like that, he asked me why I wanted to end my life, not the fake answers you give someone to appease them.
He made me feel worthy and alive. I haven't felt that way in many years. He asked me what would my life be like if I could design it. Yeah, I thought he was a little out there, but I figured. heck. what do I have to lose.
So for the last 8 months or so he has worked with me and my therapist in creating a plan of actually being myself, that I never knew existed.
I can't explain it. but I am so grateful for Mandie Safe Haven being available.
I understand that many of you are afraid of coming forward, I mean what do you have to lose? Find a therapist that will "really" listen and help you become the person you were meant to be.
Sure my life isn't perfect, but it's headed in the right direction. I am in a new relationship with a wonderful guy, that makes me laugh and cry. I know it's strange to hear a "macho" man say something like this. Life is too short...so go make some waves.
Peter
I want to thank Peter for allowing us to post his story. I realize that many of you are scared, and that life isn't perfect yet it can be better.
We don't have all the answers, only our creator does, but we can help you focus and find a purpose...it may not even be what you want. Yet, it could be what you need, to feel alive.
Prayers,
Curtis
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