It can Happen to Anyone ~ Jaun W.

Hi, my name is Jaun, and I want the world to know that evil does exist. It came from my biological father when I was 5 years old and my sister was around 4 at the time.

We were outside playing in our sandbox, when my mother was sick in the hospital, so my father...(not dad)...yeah he called us in to wash us up and that;s when it started. He had my sister suck on my privates as he massaged her and kept rubbing his crotch. I felt helpless and didn't know what to do. 

I can vividly remember feeling dirty like i was doing something wrong as my father held my sister down and yelled and cursed at us to obey him. I tried to squirm away and even told him I felt sick, but he would not listen he just continued holding her and threatening us.

Later that night I could hear my sister sobbing in her room next door to mine. I remember sneaking out of my room and checked in on my sister. 

She was still hysterical, I'm not certain if my father did more to her.

The next day at school I told my teacher and she had me see the school counselor, I told her I was scared to go back home around my father.

I don't know if the counselor was supposed to tell me but she mentioned another girl in my school being abused and said it happens sometimes and they would take care of my father that he wouldn't hurt me or my sister again.

I admit I was scared to tell anyone, but for my sister's sake I knew I had to let people know.

I am not certain what became of my father, all I know is my mother came out of the hospital and we got to move back in with her after their investigation.

I want parents to know that as a child reporting your parent is the hardest thing in the world to do.

I hope that by sharing my story it will teach parents to be more alert, and not to take chances.

I would like to think that deep down my father wasn't all that bad, but the only memories I have are of him drinking and what he did to us.

I beg you all to please be careful with people around your kids, even if you think you can trust them.

Peace out,

Jaun

PS  I want to thank Mandie and her husband Curt for letting me share this story and hope it helps others.