This book goes in great detail about how the world views abuse,. It's not a quick fix, but explains setbacks and how we can intervene, with less risk and harm, but also covers recovery from abuse.
This book is for all of us—survivors and witnesses, the abandoned and those who carry the guilt of abandoning, and everyone who wants to understand why good people so often fail to do the right thing when it matters most.
"It's none of my business."
Three words (MYB), Minding Your Business that have enabled more abuse than perhaps any other phrase in the English language.
"What happens behind closed doors should stay behind closed doors."
"Every family has problems. It's not my place to interfere."
"I don't want to overstep boundaries."
These statements sound respectful, even admirable. They reflect values we're taught from childhood: respect others' privacy, don't be nosy, mind your own business, don't judge how other people live their lives.
But somewhere along the way, privacy became more important than safety. And "minding your business" became code for looking away from abuse.
***WARNING***
Before you decide to intervene please read this book to uncover the best ways to help victims of abuse!
This is some advice about the reality of abusers and victims, the full story will be published on AMAZON, soon,
I Apologize...but I am PI$$ED Off ~
We created Mandie Safe Haven 15 months ago, and have quickly become a powerful resource for survivors.
We have written over a hundred posts to share our pain, suffering and happiness. We have also published over 30 books on various topics to peak your interest and give you insights of what others have been through.
After thinking that there is "GOOD" in our society I have discovered upsetting facts.
Before we discuss the bad, I wanted to thank all of you who have shared your pain and those who have faced their demons. I truly do understand the pain and difficult decisions you have made and applaud you for standing up for yourselves. I am grateful for your sharing and know those who are on the verge, I hope my newest book provides insights. I am not making excuses for the abusers, for they can rot in HE**, or punished for their crimes.
So let's get back to what PI$$ES me off..
I have researched why people don't intervene to help those who are being raped, beaten, abused, humiliated, and taken for granted and tossed out like garbage. That is putting it politely, I am certain you can relate.
I know evil exists, I thought with all our privileges and education that we would be further along in prosecuting evil doers.
WRONG!
When it comes to abuse and assault, evil has found ways to mind our business and not report what we know is terribly wrong.
This book is NOT about defending evil, but opening our eyes to the lengths abusers go through to discredit us, to get what they want.
My main emphasis is to show you their tactics and what we NEED to do to WIN!
Another reason for writing this book, is because we lost. My wife and I had a lawsuit against a county she lived in and we took 5 years to hear take little or get nothing for being abused.
The judge told our attorney that the last 2 similar cases that went to trial, received nothing. I can't prove it, but my adopted sister who was abused by the same adopted dad changed her mind about helping me fight for the abuse we endured. So my attorney advised we take little over nothing, but I felt betrayed and yes PI$$ED off. It wasn't about the money, i just wanted to know that justice was done and I didn't waste the last 5 years of my life, believing I would finally get heard and the world would know that there is still good in this world.
I want you to know that writing this book and seeing how the REAL world handles abusive situations make me sick to my gut, knowing they have a factual game plan on how to get away with it, unless we step up and do something about it.
I had plans on donating the money to good causes, and save some for my grand-kids.
Now there is a WAR coming...not physical, but to educate the world on what we need to do to fight this atrocity.
I pray once my book is published by November 12th, that you will post on social media about the blind eye, society has about abuse and what we can do to educate the world.
I will leave a partial download of this book for you to see what we are up against.
Prayers,
Curtis & Mandie
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